When you put a girl in a room full of other girls, she tends to compare herself as much as she hates to. She'll pick on her flaws, get more insecure, think that she's not good enough, probably hate herself more, feel upset and simply just over think too much. What do you think I'll feel when you're surrounded by so many other girls? I don't show it, I try not to. I tell myself to not worry but to "trust" cause what's there to think about? I'm just making things in my head. But deep down inside... I'm scared and very insecure cause I feel that I'm just not good enough and all these made up thoughts in my head are bugging me such as 'What if he falls for her? She's so much better than me in every possible perspective.. ohmygodohmygodohmygod'. I can't help it. I'm sorry.. it scares me.. I know this is unhealthy for every relationships.. but that's just that.

This is why, ladies.. despite all these, we got to TRUST. We got to BELIEVE and also to have some CONFIDENCE in ourselves. Trust and believe in not only your partner(boyfriend) but also yourself. Trust your choices and trust that your boyfriend is and will be faithful. Trust his love for you and trust your love for him. Believe in yourself and your relationship also your boyfriend. Have some confidence in yourself.. have some confidence in your relationship. These I believe, are some of the few very important keys/elements into building a healthy and successful relationship and prevent from self destructing yourself and your relationship.

Oh also!!! Communication! It is very important. It helps strengthen your relationship and your bond. Talk about it. What's the use if you can't be open to him about things? Be honest. Tell him how you feel and hopefully both of you can try to work things out together. But try not to make it into an argument nor make it sound like an accusation. Be empathetic about the situation be it whether cause it's your fault or his(or vise versa).

Bottom line, you two got to work as a team. It's also about teamwork :). TRUST, BELIEVE, CONFIDENCE, COMMUCATION; all of these got to work together too.

Trust yourself, trust your partner, trust your relationship.

Believe in yourself, believe in your partner, believe in your relationship.

Confidence.. be confident in yourself, be confident in your partner, be confident in your relationship.

Communication; I believe to be able to have a successful communication, you got to trust, believe and have confidence(refer to above) also BE EMPHATIC at all times. :)

I know it won't be easy and it takes time to earn and build all of these so...good luck girls/boys! Excuse me now while I go find the strength to work on mine! >.<

*facepalm* I'm so forgetful. Before I end this for real I want to say something else which I forgot to mention above; sorry! Try put yourself in your boyfriend's(partner) shoe. What if he was the one seeing you with all your guy friends being all close and stuff? I mean sure they're just friends so it's not big deal. In some cases tho, some girls tend to get all sensitive about it and it might turn into an argument since we might feel offended that our boyfriends are getting all upset about our guy friends. We might start to think that he doesn't trust us, he's being too sensitive or too much etc but really, think about it. We too get a little jealous when we see them with other girls, right? As much as we know and tell ourselves that they're just friends (which they are) but deep down inside, it does disturb us a little...doesn't it? In my case it does. I am angry at myself for having feeling that way, but I am not ashamed to admit that I do. So before anyone starts pointing fingers, stop and think. Think about why and how your partner may/is feeling too. Don't let your negative feelings take the best of you(do not act precipitously). So here's where all the "trust, believe, confidence, communication and be emphatic" comes in.

All the best to everyone out there who's facing the same problem and is trying to work it out. Kudos to those whom have :) x
Stay strong always!

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